A Victim Of Circumstance
Updated: Sep 23
Children Deserve A Fair Chance
The first sense we develop in the womb is that of feeling, we can't comprehend what it is we're feeling due to a lack of mental development, but said feeling eventually becomes a part of our very DNA and thanks to the umbilical cord.
The umbilical cord is a direct connection between mother and fetus. So not only does it offers a means for the fetus to receive food and drink, but it also allows for the fetus to feel everything that the mother feels...everything. This is why it is said that when a woman is with child, she should be in the most positive environment as possible. But say that her environment isn't positive, but as chaotic as it gets. She's frustrated, agitated, angry, etc., her fetus will begin to feel the same way.
Now the child is born into a chaotic world and brought up in a chaotic home environment. How is it that this child won't become a product of its circumstance, when its circumstance, is all it has ever felt?
Now the mind of the child is developing more, so the feeling begins to become a thought, which will begin to dictate the action. The older the child gets, the less likely his/her mind can be changed. So now they're becoming everything that was felt starting within the womb, and that they continued to feel, within the world.
Those with degrees begin to diagnose him/her incorrectly because they have partial knowledge of his/her overall situation, and due to the parent/parents' neglect. Now the child is made worse via medication meant to heal but only hurts because the situation is deeper than a simple solution.
It's all facts, and far from fiction. Analyze this scenario thoroughly and you'll see that it's far from a theory, based on the initial connection between mother and fetus.
Don't allow people who don't know your child or children's situation to tell you why they behave as they do. We know more about our child or children than any psychologist ever could, or at least we should anyway. Seeing that our children are cared for accordingly should be a top priority of ours, seeing that they had no say so in being born.
If we want to start to understand what our children's problems are we have to begin by looking at the problems within ourselves first and foremost. Food for thought.